I just don't know what to say. I do remember what you said about NY being a hard place to meet chicks in person unless you already know them or something. Everyone has their guard up etc.. So I'm not going to tell you to give up on meeting someone via the internet, although it wouldn't hurt to try elsewhere as well.
Here is what you do. Post up your ad, or what you would use for one, and we will help you re-write it as well as help you select which pictures to include and which ones not to. Then, get the damn thing on a better site like chemistsry.com, match.com, yahoo personals, plentyoffish, or something.
I know we went through this once before but apparently it's time again.